First up: sexy isn’t a size. It never has been.
We live in a world that constantly tells us otherwise, so slipping into lingerie can feel like an act of rebellion.
Whether you’re a size 8 or 28, you deserve to feel confident, desirable, and powerful in your own skin. And lingerie? It can be the tool—not the test—to get there.
Stop Waiting for "some day"
Most of us have a piece we’ve bought for “someday.”
Someday when we’ve toned up, lost weight, or feel more confident.
Here’s your permission: wear it now.
There’s nothing empowering about punishing your body with conditions.
Confidence doesn’t come after perfection. It comes from practice.
Choose Lingerie That Works With—Not Against—Your Body
Good lingerie doesn’t squeeze, shame, or hide. It supports, celebrates, and flatters.
Look for pieces that:
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Feature stretch lace, mesh, or wide bands
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Offer structure in the right places (hello, under bust support!)
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Move with your body, not against it
And remember: size up if needed. Comfort is sexy.
Let Go of the “But I don't have anyone to wear it for” Narrative
You don’t need a partner, occasion, or excuse.
Wear lingerie for a YOU. For working from home. For grocery day.
Sensuality is a state of mind and when you wear something that lights you up you will feel empowered and confident and sexy...
That’s a quiet rebellion against the idea that pleasure is something we must earn.
Reframe the Mirror Moment
More often than not we pick apart our reflection because that's what we've been taught to do... But what if that moment in front of the mirror wasn’t inspection—it was connection or an opportunity?
Next time you slip into lingerie, look at yourself like someone you love.
Admire. Appreciate. Applaud. STOP looking for the imperfections and love what you see before you.
Your body is not a project.
It’s not a problem to solve.
It’s a living, feeling, beautiful thing worthy of softness, lace, and love.
So, go ahead—wear the damn lingerie.
XO Leeanne
